Dori Randall of Claremont, Minnesota has concluded that she would rather live as comfortably as possible without the side effects of medical interventions that might extend her life, but at a cost (potentially traumatizing side effects).
She actually made the opposite decision 18 years ago, when she was treated for breast cancer. But, this time, she had no insurance and says she had to wait until she turned 65 in order to qualify for Medicare. By that time, it was too late.
She was diagnosed with terminal colon cancer.
Randall and her husband of 37 years, Jim, had a previous medical bill of $40,000 from a surgery she had earlier.
They have whittled the $40,000 down to $16,000 by making payments slow but sure. Jim is an over-the-road trucker and continues his work while Dori continues her many life joys. She wants it that way for as long as possible. She likes her cats, her many sentimental belongings, her books, crocheting and jewelry making. And she loves getting to see her kids, grandkids, friends and neighbors.
She shared her story with Post-Bulletin readers this weekend, a testament to her interest in helping others accept the dying process as simply another part of the process of life.
I entered a conversation on Friday with a different woman in Rochester that took many directions. Eventually, she mentioned she lives in Claremont. It took the wind out of me, because I had never met anyone that I knew to be from Claremont (a relatively small community) until I met Dori and Jim Randall.
Then, a few days later, I meet this other woman. I asked her if she knows Dori and she said yes, they are part of the same church community. I told her the weekend newspaper would have an article about Dori. The woman said the church has a prayer chain.
"We pray for her every week," she said, adding that, individually, they pray for Dori daily.
It's important to note that the American Cancer Society says screening for colon cancer should begin at age 50 (earlier if you have risk factors, such as a family history of colon cancer or intestinal polyps). A polyp doesn't start out as cancer, but it can turn cancerous, the Cancer Society told me Friday.
And colon cancer is one that can actually be prevented if the polyps are removed. So the Cancer Society recommends that you get screened with a colonoscopy (and I note that there is a "virtual" colonoscopy available now where you swallow a vitamin pill-sized camera that takes pictures of your intestinal tract). If a polyp is found, it gets removed and cancer doesn't get the chance to develop.
I recognize that this might not be possible if you have not insurance. But it might be worth 'finding a way,' if you're able. I had my first-ever colonoscopy last year (?) because I have a family history of polyps. Fortunately, I had none, though I did have one diverticulum (kind of a dent in the intestinal tract that, if numerous enough, can cause problems by catching seeds, etc.).
Colon cancer symptoms include:
Blood in the stool, a change in stool habits, diarrhea, constipation, change in stool consistency for more than two weeks, persistent gas or pain or discomfort in the abdomen, the feeling that your bowel hasn't completely emptied, unexplained weight loss, weakness or fatigue, says MayoClinic.com.
Pulse on Health
By Jeff Hansel, member Association of Health Care Journalists
Health Reporter for the Post-Bulletin newspaper, 18 1st Ave. S.E. in Rochester, Minnesota 55904
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