Considering the temp was below zero and a snowstorm was coming, we had a good crowd at the P-B Dialogues event last night at the Rochester Public Library. The theme was inclusiveness -- does Rochester live up to its goal of being an inclusive community?
Thanks to Gregory Stavrou of the Rochester Civic Theatre, Mitch Stevenson of the Rochester Convention and Visitors Bureau, and Farhan Syed, a Mayo researcher and member of the Rochester Islamic Center, who joined me at the front table and responded to questions and comments from the audience. Most of the 40-some people who attended had insightful comments and good ideas for continuing this conversation.
Which we will -- I'll get a date for the February program ASAP and we'll zero in on one piece of the bigger conversation we had last night.
Here are random notes from last night:
Defining what it means to be an "inclusive" community was a starting point. Farhan suggested that being inclusive of newcomers means that a person is "accepted as I am -- I don't have to change who I am to be accepted." He recalled his own experience of growing up in the south of India and attending university in the north, a much different region culturally than his home province.
"Do not give up who you are" to be accepted, he said.
Mitch, a native of East Texas, asked, "How many of you have ever feared for your life? I mean really feared for your life" because of race or discriminationg? He told of a transformative experience of that kind when he was a college student in Arkansas.
When he moved to the Midwest, he said, "I could not believe the difference in people in the Midwest, compared to where I came from ... there's less (racial) tension here ..."
That said, he and others talked at length about the subtle racism that lurks beneath Minnesota Nice -- "Minnesota Ice," as library staffer Katherine Stecher described it later.
As Gregory said, "Minnesota Nice as a communications style is a tactic to avoid conflict and maintain the status quo."
Mitch said his experience in Rochester as a well-connected, well-known community leader, is far different from people of color who would be considered of a more "threatening" class. "Many of you know me...I don't experience the same things" as other minority residents.
Gregory, who has led the civic theater and lived in Rochester for about a year, said, "As an artist, I've always struggled with what it means to be an artist and involved in the community," not isolated in an "ivory tower." The month-long "Celebration of Diversity and Inclusiveness" that the theater and the Diversity Council have put together is a reflection of that.
"If we're serious (about this issue), this isn't not a one-shot deal," he said. If the effort to promote a more tolerant and inclusive community is just a once-a-year exception, "it's not as much as we ought to be doing."
Theater and arts organizations "amplify voices that otherwise would not be heard," he said.
As did others, Gregory said the real hope for building a more tolerant, welcoming culture is with young people, and the arts play a vital role in reaching young people. "That's why arts curriculum in the schools is so vital," he said.
Connecting with young people was one action item from the meeting. "It absolutely starts at home," said Mitch.
As another person said, adults who are intolerant may be a lost cause in terms of bringing them to a new outlook; the community needs to focus its attention on reaching young people.
A teacher in the audience: "It comes from the home ... I see Rochester as being very accepting, but there's still some work to be done."
A reference was made to "upper echelons" in Rochester being part of the problem, at least historically. (Mitch asked if anyone in the room was aware of when Mayo first allowed black and white patients to mingle? He didn't provide the answer during the meeting but afterward said it was 1947.) I said at that point, "Thank God for some in the upper echelons," especially at Mayo, who've taken the lead on this issue for years.
Gregory noted that much of this month's diversity programming was made possible with help from Mayo.
Someone made a comment that we were "preaching to the choir" and we needed to get this message of inclusivity to a larger audience, which led a guy to say, "I'm a big believer in working with who shows up" to make change happen.
Steve Lehmkuhle, University of Minnesota Rochester chancellor, described what he called "intentional versus unintentional discrimination." It's tough to change the minds of those who discriminate purposefully and with intent; there's more potential in reaching young people and others who have discriminatory attitudes for lack of awareness and education.
Mike Podulke, an Olmsted County Board member, said discrimination is "not about race, it's about class and culture."
Farhan called for individual acts of daily courage. "We need to break the ice and be more explorative" -- in a polite and respectful way -- in our relationships with people from other cultures and traditions, he said.
A woman in the audience said, "Everyone just wants to be accepted." Another said, "One of the answers is with the youth" of
this community. "It takes more of an effort for people of my age not to
see something as weird," but young people are living the change that's
occurring here and can be more open-minded and accepting.
An audience member named Robin: "As a community, we're very welcoming to certain newcomers ... if they look different, then it's a whole different thing."
Regarding the hiring of Rochester Schools Superintendent Romain Dallemand, an audience member said she didn't think Rochester was ready for a black superintendent at that time. "I think people are a long ways from" being accepting of it.
Gregory, after saying twice that he thinks Rochester is a great place to live, said, "This appears to be a rather segregated community ... there's a sense of closeted-ness there."
An audience member suggested a communitywide cultural festival that helps people get familiar with all the traditions and values of ethnicities represented in Rochester. (Such a festival apparently is being planned for 2012...)
I asked what the Post-Bulletin can and should do to help the community to become a more welcoming, inclusive place. There were a few ideas and I'll tell you about
those in a later post.
Pass along your ideas here, and plan to join us at the next meeting.
I'll note here that some of the comments added by readers to the P-B stories about last night's event have been predictably nasty. I haven't taken them down; they speak for themselves about the need for more events such as last night's. Fortunately, the vast majority of people in the Rochester area are more enlightened and welcoming than the few people who make cruel, extreme and mean-spirited comments on our Web site.
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